Sounds like neither of you really get the meaning of sarcasm... I think that once he told you what he didn't like about you, having you basically say "I'm sorry, I'll fix that" made him change his mind and want to give you a second chance. Or, on the more rare possibility, he was not inviting you to the cookout as a potential love interest but as a friend.He wouldn't be worth it to me personally, a guy that says "I can't go out with you because of X Y and Z" after 3 weeks is better off finding someone else...

Thanks guys for the input...yeah I think the fact that he is an underwear model and very successful in his full time job that make him has a lot of egos and expects all the girls to worship him. And when I teased him that he's a little bit short to be a model (5'11) that really upset him. And also "language barrier" that makes it worst because i'm a foreigner and my English is not very good and when I text him that make it sounds sarcastic.....

One minute he calls you immature, the next he invites you to his place - for what, a bootie call? And why not pick up a phone? texting, emailing, can all be misconstrued. I would let this one go by but in future don't rely on texting as main way of communicating.

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No..we haven't had sex and I don't want to have sex with him..too soon..yeah I think I done my part by apologized to him.. I just text him cuz he's at work so will see if he wants to talk....

Lol why did you text him?  you must really like him.  he told you twice over that he didnt want to see you anymore and you're still chasing after him...

I do really like him and I did really hurt his ego.i text him because I wanted to know why he invited me to the cookout..we did hang out yesterday..it was my first time that I initiated to meet up and we had a great time..but will see what's gonna happen tomorrow....