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I think that it is probably best to be with family - people who you know love you..

Edited 12/19/2008 1:02 pm ET by sugarbaby_gal..

It's helpful to do things that make you feel good as well as things outside yourself geared to making others feel good.

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For me, a big part of the Christmas Season is the spirit of giving.  There are so many opportunities to do this, so pick one that is meaningful and do something about it.  For me personally, seeing a smile on a child's face or a smile on an elderly person's face brings a sense of peace and lives up to the spirit of the season I enjoy..

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays to you and yours...

Hahahaha!  That made me laugh - thanks..

I have spent a number of years alone for many holidays, birthdays, etc that I am used to it now. The first few years were difficult but eventually you adapt.  But thanks for the laugh...

Accept invitations to parties and go alone ANYWAY. Its harder to stay depressed when you are around people who are having a good time. MAKE yourself go if you don't want to Give to others. There are far worse things than being single - When you stop focusing on the lack in your life and instead look at what you have to offer others, it changes your perspective.Spend time with family (unless they are worse off than you!) Then spend time with people who make you feel good.Remember the real reason for the season - it's about giving love to others. When you are feeling sorry for yourself you have nothing to give someone else..

Toni..

This time of year especially when you're down on your luck is a good time to give to others. I like to ring bells for the Salvation Army & deliver meals on wheels to the unfortunate. It makes you realize how lucky you really are. I also am recently single & I totally understand how depressed you are. Surround yourself with your family & friends. It doesn't cure the pain but it makes it easier. Have a Merry Christmas..

Thanks, but I'm neither single nor depressed. It's just that I know a few people who are, and I'm always hearing of people feeling down at this time. Good ideas, though..

Merry Christmas to you as well..

CL - Women of Color  ..