My first question is: Are Online Dating sites such as Match.com, E-harmony, and Yahoo Personals are a rip off to people?.

My next question is: I met this guy last year, we have dated on and off, we lost touch, now back on since December. I really like him and plan on having a relationship (thru Match.com) with him. I have two kids and they spend everyother week with me. This week they are with me so he's not contacting me too much. He usually initiates the phone calls. The last time I spoke to him was Sunday, so after much though I decided to call him yesterday. He was driving to the gym when we spoke, so I had to make it kind of short.

I told him that I had been thinking about him, and he enthusiastically replied, "me too", then I followed saying: " I think about you everyday", and he replied "Don't think about me too much", I was upset, and he said, "i was kidding, I didn't mean anything, by that", which leaves me feeling cold about how he feels about me. I told him that I won't say things like that anymore, and he kept saying, he was just kidding...what should I do to conquer his heart, any advise?..