My first question is: Do you sink that is safe to luck for love on match.com?.

My next question is: I guess my question would be how to get out of the friend role with a guy.  I have been attracted to one of my closest friends for a few years.  We hang out almost every weekend, usually in a group but sometimes on our own.   A friend asked why we didn't date using Match.com and I always play it off as I don't want to screw up a good friendship and make our other friends weird about us hang out together.  He is my best friend's husband's brother,  (we spend at least one night a weekend, holidays, birthdays and etc. hanging out and doing something). .

There are times that I get the feeling he feels the same way about me, holding eye contact too long, teasing, flirting.  He knows little things about me like what I drink when we go out, and how I like my coffee, my favorite types of movies, what songs I like to sing and etc.  Other times I'm not sure, he just never makes any type of move.  He doesn't date using Match.com much, but neither do I we live in a small rural area where it can be hard to meet people with out being a bar fly hence my POF account..

Ok, and here is the kicker.  About 6 months ago, a Friday night, the two of us hanging out together, a bottle of Captain Morgan, we slept together.   I had to leave to babysit my neice and nephew before he woke up.   So, I stopped by his place that afternoon, and it was "I'm sorry I don't remember what happened."  For a little while there was akwardness(sp?), but then he, well Iguess both of us just acted like it didn't happen..

I am really shy, I can't just come right out and ask him.  I've tried, I always chicken out.  No, I don't want to go the high school route, of having my friend ask him.   I just don't know how to find out how he feels...