My first question is: Do you think that people who sign up for match.com....?.

My next question is: I have been dating (online dating with Match.com) this guy for a little over 2 months now and am confused about his feelings. When I ask him if he cares about me or if it is just physical he says that he does care, but when we kiss it distorts his judgment. He then said that we are both really different people and need to resolve our differences. Other times he will talk about us being married someday. But whenever I bring up if he cares he says that he worries about the future and that we could both hate each other one day. Then he told me that he has been a loner for so long that after a while he becomes indifferent around his friends and family.

His parents divorced when he was a teenager and he talks about it often. He says he doesn't want to end up like his parents, because they hated each other. I see good qualities in him, but I also worry about his faults. The main reason I bring up if he cares or not, is because he has not said I love you yet. Maybe it's too soon, but I worry he may never say it.

I don't know what I am asking exactly, but I just need some advice because I feel like I may be blinded to what is really happening in our relationship...