Your question was: Does anyone know where I can find a charming and caring guy in NY city. Did anyone ever tried match..

1) With a new guy I'd love to spend time getting to know him doing fun stuff outdoors... Horseback riding, hiking, swimming in the ocean. Maybe some late night movies... 2) With an SO I think a weekend trip to a bed and breakfast or a nice hotel would be great, preferably one with a pool and a spa, having a nice quality time connecting one another..

TBH, I wouldn't even know what to do on a date using Match.com with a new guy and hope I never have to worry about it But your suggestions sound good..

>>With an SO I think a weekend trip to a bed and breakfast or a nice hotel would be great, preferably one with a pool and a spa, having a nice quality time connecting one another <<.

SO and I have done this. It was wonderful. The problem is finding those little moments and quality time when you're back in the regular routine..

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With an SO - with a new guy it's a thrill, perhaps a fleeting thrill where you'll want to forget the whole thing if you break up 2 weeks later.  With an SO you really know each other so it's a real shared experience.

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With a new guy it could be fun to do something together that is challenging for the two of you - i.e: learning a new sport together.  You'll bond quick if you're trying something where both need help and neither feel like experts.

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