Your question was: How come girls with equivilant hotornot.com ratings won't talk with me on eharmony or match.com?.
He probably doesn't even know what his motives are! he sounds confused, stay away from him till he sorts out his feelings. even if he just wants to hang out as friends, if there is the possibility that either of you two would start developing feelings for each other, it would just be a bad outcome either way.If he does leave the girlfriend for you, you don't know if he's completely over her and I find that guys on the rebound make bad companions.orIf he doesn't leave the girlfriend, he might try to have the best of both worlds and play with your emotions or, you'll fall for him, but he'll still be with the girlfriend...
I say give him all the time that he needs...forever. And you move on to someone else. Nothing is more aggravating than dealing with a man like that. If you are a priority then he would set aside the time for you and not keep cancelling...
{she is still trying to be part of his life.. according to him she wants to get bck together and he doesnt she wont leave him alone she is still trying to be part of his life.. according to him she wants to get bck together and he doesnt she wont leave him alone }.
Baloney. If he wanted to end it, he'd end it. If a man (or woman) is still communicating with an ex (other than if they have children together or are dealing with financial concerns)..they haven't moved on.
At least he had the courtesy to tell you he doesnt want to bring anyone else into it (if he's telling the truth).
Confused people, confuse people. Focus on attracting someone who is ready to be in a new, committed relationship, that has let go of old ties. He hasn't. You deserve someone who is available, NOW...
I agree with all the others, this guy is a total confused loser. Its good you found out very early. Move on you deserve better, dont even be his friend. He will try and manipulate your feelings..
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My next door neighbor.
Wants to ban all guns.
THEIR HOUSE IS UNARMED.
Out of respect for their opinion I will not protect.
Them with my guns..
