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We've been together about three and a half months, and he's in his mid-thirties..

He's interested in a lot of things... but not everything, if that makes sense.  He LOVES books, but I gave him a gift certificate for Borders for his birthday.  I don't want to get him a repeat gift!  :-)  As far as what kind, he likes all kinds... but I'm afraid that if I just pick one, it'll be one he already read or already has, or might be in a subject he's interested in, but he may not be interested in that exact topic, if that makes sense.  He likes books the most..

He's also into art, but I don't really know what to do with that.  He already has a nice camera, and the fancy filters that would go along with it.  He doesn't draw or paint unless he's inspired.  But I think he already has the tools he would need to do that...

I don't want to spend more than about $20 or $30.  I don't want to get him something sexy or practical.  I want to get him something unique, maybe even creative, but I don't know what yet.  I want it to say "I like you," not "I want to jump you."  :-).

And  I don't want to get him something just to get him something.  I wanna get him something 'cuz he's special...

Does he have a nice travel case for his camera, or a tripod for it?..

If you want to say "I like you" then give him something to remember you by - something that wont be used and discarded.  If he is into books and you know of a hobby of his - get a coffee table book. It will demonstrate that you kept his interests in mind when you purchased it.  If you know what musical groups he likes then get some cd's.  Or if he has a favorite movie - get it on dvd for him...

Why not make a totally special evening for him - cook all his favorite foods, offer to do whatever he wants - i.e.: massage him all over, other sexual favors, etc.  Just give him a nite of it being all about him.

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As far as the camera accessories, he does already have a tripod, but not a case.  But I don't think he wants a case... I commented on his lack of one before, and he responded that he thinks that taking it in and out of a case is a hassle.  He usually keeps it under the seat in his car or in his backback if he's not in the car, so he can just whip it out when he's ready.  Thanks for the idea, though.  :-).

As far as the cooking is concerned, we'll be going out of town, so I won't be able to cook him something in a hotel room.  And sexual favors... we haven't done it yet.  Though he's spent the night, we haven't done much in the sex department, because we want to take things really slow..

Edited 2/7/2009 8:52 pm ET by iluvmorphy..

How does the guy feel about V-Day? Has it come up?.

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