Im not lonely. I am just curious on why now?..
Sounds like a lot of drama. Are you sure you want this?..
Welcome to the board!!.
I think I'd double think this whole thing again. He's an ex for a reason and it doens't seem like he's changed. Well except that he's not seeing anyone right now. If the two of you can sit down and talk this all through, and you still feel good about getting back together - than okay. Only you can know what is right for you..
With him it is easier said then done. I am just confused on why he would come out. Not like he didnt know I was going to be there and he acted like he always did with me. Our bff does not want us together because he would rather I be with him, so that causes an issue. But I'm just curious why once we were for good out of each others life he comes out, and not only once. I mean they can go places that I am not at.. I will always be in love with the man I knew.
We were on and off again for years since he would get scared and run. But me I have gotten my own place again and have build my life up. Him he has a roomate and cant even afford to buy a new car. The last gf took him for all he was worth. I just dont know, I wish we could talk.
I told him I did not know him anymore and it was odd to have him out. Im just confused on what to do,...
If all you want is freinds, than keep it at that. He's coming out looking for some friendship and I'd guess more. If this last gf left him cold and in a moutain of debt, he's feeling bad and most likely looking for some comfort. He remembers the good times too. But you said you don't want what he's become and that's great that you've made that decision. Stick to your guns and make this what YOU want. .
Ironically I feel he wanted more or he wouldnt have broken the not being in each others life. Now the only bad thing is our common friend is who really controls the cards. He wont invite him out when we meet up at the bar and he wont give my ex my number. My ex said he would get my number from him and I just laughed. This guy and I are good friends and sometimes he doesnt understand he and I will never be together. People see this kid as something that came between me and my ex.
But all I can do is hope that my ex will take it on himself to find a way to contact me or come out. Since I wont go to him. I will always love the man I fell in love with, but not the man he became...