My first question is: I find both the Confused.com and the Match.com adverts most annoying. would you agree? if not what a.

My next question is: I met a guy at the gym. I noticed a few times that he was trying to catch my eye. So we spoke to each other a few times. he had asked me on two occasions to go somewhere after the gym. I turned him down as on both occasions I really needed to get something done before work the next morning.Then I noticed he was more reticent when I saw him at the guy so I decided to take the lead and suggested that we go for drinks that evening. It was very nice and he treated me that evening.

I offered him my phone number. he called me that night asking if I got home ok. That was Monday evening. I had gone to bed by then and mentioned it later when I saw him in the gym 2 days later. Later on that night I suggested by text message that we get together on Friday.By Tuesday next week, I saw him at the gym.

Ok, someone told me not to ask someone out by text. So a week later when I saw him at the gym, I suggested that we go tot he park on Sunday. He said he wasn't sure and he would get back to me. Never happened.Now I notice that we avoid each other at the gym. I just want to mention, at the gym, I was never one to initiate contact so I never turned any of this interaction into anything public.Where did I go wrong here?..