Your question was: I found a coworkers husband on match.com.?.

The only tip that comes to mind is : be yourself.  IMHO, it's too soon to introduce him to your friends, roommates and family, bnot mentioning that it's YOUR home...hmmmmm. Don't you want to get to know him better before you introduce him to everyone in the planet? He may not be what he seems to be...

Thanks for the tip..

For several reasons not disclosed in my original note I don't think it's too soon in this case, but I see your point...

If you for some reason feel that three dates is enough to introduce him to your loved ones, then it's your call. Good luck...

There'll be other people there and games and fun. It sounds like a nice, casual yet intimate homey date.  Just relax  - if it was a dinner, wine, candlelight, just the two of you for the whole evening  thing, that's another story obviously.  But this sounds perfect - time alone and time to interact in a fun way with others.  You're sharing yourself and your life and have good friends aboard as a buffer.

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Thanks! It went really well. We've since been on two more dates. :-)..

Absolutely. Although this time of the year and the pressure therein to have someone solid in your life might make you feel pressure to include him in your life.  Take it slow.  Enjoy getting to know one another..

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