Your question was: I have pictures of a guy I met through match.com who turned out to be a total liar where can?.

I would tend to infer that him asking you to call if you're going out means he's most likely interested in being friends, but since you left it that way with him, I think you need to call in order to find out if he's really interested in more but wanted to leave it in your court.  But I would consider that a long shot and not be too disappointed if it does turn out he wants to be friends..

Sheri..

If you are going out with a group of people this weekend you can call him and invite him to come along, why not?  It is a friend-like thing to do..

But, if you'd like him to become the romantic aggressor you are going to have to tell him that is what you want.  I'd probably tell him that I'm assuming that he is interested in a friendly kind of relationship (thru Match.com) and that's fine, but if he wants me to see him in a romantic way he'd have to take the lead.  This way there would be no confusion...

Ahh yes I feel as though I'm a similar situation! Yah know it's 2008 and things have changed perhaps he is rusty in the whole dating (online dating with Match.com) scene and would like you to hold the cards, aka call him and see when and where he wants to hang out. He has a lot more on his plate after all he has a child. Yah know women can also make the first move and a lot men like it that ways! So yes call him and see if he is interested , sitting here pondering what to do, will not make it happen. Also if he is busy , find out when he is available again and see where it goes from there, what's to lose you'll at least make a new friend and he might know someone else who you can meet !.

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Sarah..

I think you meant this for the original poster. It came to my email instead...

Did he pay when you went out? Right now it's a bit amorphous but it sounds like he's interested. You can casually invite him along like he asked but if it progresses from there let him ask you out. Good luck.

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