I just happened to be looking up a mutual friends number, he knew that.

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You were snoopin for more than just a friends number....I am not stupid when it comes to cells...you type the persons name in...you went lookin for something...or you were courious about all the numbers in his cell...

I don't know why you're practically calling her a liar..

On my phone, I don't type in a person's name when looking for a contact..

Zz..

I think if you've been dating (online dating with Match.com) for a year & a half, you have every right to look at his phone. If he doesn't have anything to hide, then he won't mind. I feel that everyone has their right to privacy but we also have to protect ourselves & our own interests...

Not callin her a liar...but really if you have a good relationship (thru Match.com) why is she questioning his answer. I dont know how many times I have dated guys or have guy friends that thier GF goes through thier phone and starts callin on everything they have. And they say I was just lookin for so and so....or they have permission to use thier phone and they start snoopin. And if you feel kike you have to protect yourself in a relationship (thru Match.com) by snoopin you should not be in a relationship...

Ok well first off, her problem isnt' that she was snooping through his phone, the problem was that she found an escourt service number in his phone. My advice is it of course talk about it. This is bothering you and he's the person you need to share it with. Just approach it gently and honestly. Tell him that you were looking through his phone, you know it was wrong and dishonest and you're owning up to that now. But in addition to looking though it, you found this number and want to know what is going on.

Just get over one bump before the next. Keep it honest and straight forward. If you can't talk like that in a year long relationship, you're wasting your time.....