Your question was: Is there a way to stop the scammers from posting on yahoo personals and on Match.com? They just hurt.

*sigh*....enjoy your flutters....

It is so nice to feel that feeling. Hopefully those feelings linger for a while..

I was feeling those 6 months ago and things didnt work out - he and I are not right for each other.  Sometimes my feelings are a bit confused - like I get that fluttery feeling or that loving feeling but then this sick pang takes over me and then I try to push him out of my head.  I still feel love inside but I know that it wouldnt work out and he has done so many hurtful things that by the end I was swimming in hurt..

I miss feeling that feeling. I miss feeling that feeling about him too.  I was excited.  But I have to move forward - he doesnt treat me correctly and he always wants me to take a peek at him.  But...if I see what he is up to in January I'm sure it will only rip my heart out (either he doesnt care or gets a sick kick out of it when he CAN prevent it  &  you know his "friends" love hurting me) so I wont bother - why hurt if I dont have to? .

But...dont worry about going over the top because...you only get to have that new relationship (thru Match.com) feeling ONCE and that is a time of great fun and excitement...

>>you only get to have that new relationship (thru Match.com) feeling ONCE<<.

I disagree. Couples who really work at doing things like date using Match.com nights and surprising each other can still feel it. I get that feeling for my SO, and we've been together for 4 years..

CL - Women of Color  ..

Yeah. For example, if it's been a while since we've done date using Match.com night and he plans something - either out or an indoor deal -  I still get that fluttery feeling. It's weird.

CL - Women of Color  ..

Enjoy the feeling but don't put too much stock in it.  Get to know each other for real not just in a fantasy way. Enjoy.

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Thank you...I totally hear what you are saying as truer words have never been spoken.  Have a Happy New Year!..

Yes enjoy the feeling. But yes know that infatuation can turn to something more but not always.  Head and heart have to both be in motion!.

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I think you meant your reply for the original poster...I have no reason to feel butterflies..unless you count nausea regarding the human race. ..