Your question was: Looking for a site called Romance Match.com?.

Why do guys just want sex?  Because it feels good .. hehe..

But, really,  you dont mention how old you are and how old are the guys with whom you are dating.  Can you elaborate a little more?.

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It's funny, 'cause I was just exclaiming the same question into the cosmos.Of course not ALL men are like this, but for some reason, the only ones that are interested in me are! "Oh I really like you, we get on so well...LETS HAVE SEX NOW" and I have to refuse and refuse and refuse before I can get them to leave, following which they either stalk me or just disappear! I had casual sex once, and sure it was ok on the night itself, but the day after, as the alcohol wore off, it had twisted and messed everything up.Of course there are loads of good guys out there.. But they tend to become my friends as opposed to partners. Sigh.Frustration. Annoyance. Argh, blah, dooodlepoo!Swazzy.x..

Ok - if you keep meeting men who just want flings then something ABOUT YOU is attracting men who just want flings. YOU are the common denominator.  Immature men aren't the problem really, the 'problem' lies in your attitudes that men only want one thing - therefore this is what you keep getting. This is often something we do subconsciously - so look within and see what it is about you that are attracting these men.

When your attitudes and thoughts speak to a certain belief, that is what you get. YOU are the only one who can change the quality of man you attract - by changing things about your attitudes and demeanor.

Change your attitudes and beliefs and you will change your life.

Toni..

Not every guy is like that.  Just have faith, stick to your principles and you will find one of the good ones.

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Oh I know!!! the guys I seem to deal with, will sit there and tell me all this bull about how they like me and how pretty I am by the end of it, OF COURSE they try to have sex with me and I say no and it's like men talk about how they don't mess around with easy girls and when they find someone they're attracted to, they still only want sex... I've had casual relationships and I'm very sick of them I would like to have a real relationship (thru Match.com) with a good guy..... but it's just sooooo hard!!! idk.. it's just very confusing to me. lol...

If you expect to meet a certain type of man, think that's all you deserve, then that is who you will find. There are a lot of good guys out there..

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It can be a self fulfilling prophecy - expecting men to only want one thing, to be users, that is who you will attract. The more you feel you deserve more, the more you will find it.

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Thanks!! that's a great way to put it. I know that I deserve a lot more than that but it seems like that's all I've ever got so that's just how I feel I guess. But I should start thinking more positive and hopefully that will attract more of my kind of guys!!!.. I hope..