Your question was: Match.com users. Online chatting tips?.

Yes, I remember you and I remember advising you to get rid of both of them and I still stand behind that advice.  A relationship (thru Match.com) shouldnt be this hard or this abusing to you.  Why not find another girl who is into you the same way you are into her and doesnt play games with you. You'd have a lot more fun...

Hi Toughtimes99,.

Welcome from the new CL.  It's great to have guys on the board!!.

I'm not defending your gf in any way, but shes not the only one at fault.  Have you spoken with your friend and told him to stop?  If they don't then I'd drop them both.  Friends and girl fiends don't treat people like this.  I know this is way easier said than done, but....

I would think your gf would be more understanding about your ex.  She is in the same boat as you!!  And you did what she asked.  I wouldn't worry about your ex and if she contacts you, I'd leave it alone. .

We can't please everyone in this world, so don't work too hard at trying.  Do what is best for you and treat others with respect and common courtesy..

Good Luck,.

Kristie.

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First -ur best friend there dont sound like a best friend.  if he knows you guys are trying to work things out then he should step aside to let you two do your thing.  if it doesnt work out between you two then there is his chance but right now he shouldnt interfere.  as for the ex-gf, y does she even care if you deleted her?? it's a done deal, relationship (thru Match.com) is over-u don't even need to respond to her.  what right does your current gf have to get mad over your ex-gf asking you a question while she accept gifts from another guy and getting him a bear for v-day??? common that's only between a gf & bf...sorry to be blunt but sounds like shes trying to have the best of both worlds.  you shouldn't have to put up with this -i think you should ask her who she wants to be w or if it's ok with her that you have another girl texting you and buying you gifts on v-day, relationship (thru Match.com) has to balance everything has to go both ways, if she is not ok w you having a female friend acting like a gf then your gf should understand how you feel.  good luck!..

I remember you from before too and I thought that your girlfriend had promised to stay away from your best friend. Clearly, she is not doing that. I think you should move on and find someone new...