Your question was: My ex-girlfriend on Match.com??!!!?.

Yeah, wasting anymore time when you know someone doesn't want what you want is what has motivated me to feel almost nothing about this breakup. This feeling has been building up for a while - which is why I'm not too surprised about the readiness I have to move on as if it was nothing. I mean how can you really love someone and want a future with someone who treated you badly...

"I feel as if I have a better sense of myself and what I want out of life and a relationship." .

That's good. I agree, and for me while I was in the relationship (thru Match.com) even though I knew with my head what my sense of self and desires for life are, I wasn't able to act on it because I was in self-imposed denial about the guy I guess. Now I am so freed up to really live the way I want to live. I've learned a lot about what kind of guy is for me..

"I think that if you are honest with yourself, and allow yourself to feel whatever you feel about the situation, it's ok.".

Even while we were trying to work on things I was pushing some aspects out of my head, like in denial about just how absurd the thought of his mindset changing actually is. It's been in the last 2 months that I've gotten real with myself about the facts..

Thanks Tompaper, and good luck with the new guy you're dating..

Sugarbaby, I think that sounds good but I have to be honest and also add that we were still involved till xyz week. I hope no guy asks anytime soon.  This is just odd for me to be ready to date using Match.com so soon. My past two big break ups, I didn't date anyone for almost a year. Not this time...

After being with my boyfriend for 3 years and half, we broke up and in a very bad way... I felt like my life was over, I cried and cried for days and days because I thought that I would not be able to love again or be with someone again but one day and exactly after one month I was out and met this sweet person, we liked each other and exchanged numbers, we started going out and he actually asked me about my previous relationship (thru Match.com) and I could not lie, I simply told him that I broke up with my boyfriend last month....

Being in that new relationship (thru Match.com) helped me a lot to let go of the past and all that history I shared with my ex. And the same is going to happen to you once you start dating (online dating with Match.com) again....

My point is, yes it's ok to feel energized and feel like you want to date using Match.com again even though you have just broken up with your ex, and it's also ok to tell your new man the truth, after all, it's the truth!!!.

Go for it and enjoy life, life is very short..