Your question was: Refused a date. Big mistake?.

How reliable your friend's comment on the "jerky playboy" stuff? If your friend's comment is 100% reliable, no need to regret, just move on & find another chap! All the best!..

For the future, while friends may have mean well, you really need to determine what kind of person a man is by interacting with him yourself. If he knew 5 other women to ask out besides you, he may very well be a player. The fact that he was snippy with you is an indicator that he may not be so charming underneath his cuteness. Dont worry about screwing up this one...he doesn't sound so great...

Uh you 'hexed' him? And broken up as he was by your refusal he still managed to immediately ask out 5 other women? This does not off the cuff sound like amazing boyfriend material... I wouldn't grieve but I would get out there and try to meet some nice guys.

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LOL OMG, what a jerk! He really said that you hexed him?? I hope he was kidding. If he wasn't, then you made the right decision by not going out with him because he is obviously a bitter arschloch.....

So since this time, I've gone out with a few nice guys that I'm pretty good friends with. For some reason, I only feel hormonally drawn to 'The Idiot' in the beginning. We still look at each other, and know what the other is thinking. And I son't blame him to treat me scornfully, I was a bitch to insult him like I did. I don't know how to end this so I can move on...

Yes it doesn't sound like it was much of a loss.

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Again this is not worth giving up anymore of your energy to.  The hexing comment was proof your instincts were guiding you correctly.

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