My first question is: Russian match.com?.

My next question is: I was dating (online dating with Match.com) a guy for about two months.  Everything was great, chemistry was there, our kids got along, etc.  We were moving way too fast in the fact that we were spending almost every day together from the very beginning.  Then, all of a sudden he disappears.  He sparatically returnes text messages and emails and seldom calls anymore.  He said that he needs space to get his life in order.  He says that I am the perfect girl for him, but that he needs to get his life in order for me.  During the two months we dated, his father died, he faced the one year anniversary of his brother's death, and he is filing bankruptcy..

I have tried to not call, text, or email, but I have done all of the above at least once a week.  I keep telling my self to not contact him anymore, but I just cannot let him go..

My dilema is the fact that he still has clothes here at my house, I have tickets to a concert in a month for us and our kids, and I have a condo booked at the beach that we were all planning on going.  What do I do?  What about his clothes, concert, vacation.....