Your question was: Should you kiss on a 1st date?.

I voted Other - because it so depends on the chemistry, the guy and my mood..

Carrie..

I am usually the kind of girl who says don't kiss on the first date. haha my opinion changed when I met my boyfriend.We had a really great time, chemistry was there, and he asked me if he could kiss me. It was like something out from the movie. starry sky, sweet guy, and a nice time: would be too crazy to pass it up. haha. I should stop rambling on.

Oh and by the way, the guy I kissed on the first date using Match.com and I have been together for 2 years now. ukia..

I had to chuckle as this was such a nice memory for us!  After our first date using Match.com (at a very swanky restaurant), he walked me to my car. I gave him a hug and he asked if he could take me out the next Sat. night.  I told him that he could kiss me if he wanted to he took full advantage of that.  The chemistry was unbelievable!  We joked about people driving by (it was a pretty main street) and how we hoped no one we knew was going by, LOL! .

We've been together for almost 3 years and married for about 15 months..

CArole..

Congrats on the marriage! hopefully we will get hitch soon. Glad to know I wasn't the only one putting out on the first date. haha, Carole!ukia..

Yep! That's why I included the "other" option... some people have pretty firm rules about whether or not they kiss on a first date, while many simply play it by ear.

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ROFL!.

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Awww... that's so sweet! And, it's one very good reason why it's important to be flexible in life.

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It's not an either - or answer.  Sometimes it's a natural end to a wonderful evening  - if the vibes are right, go for it.  Other times well, it would give off wrong signals and/or you like the person but want to take it slowly.  In those cases a hug is nice..

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