Your question was: What do you think about Match.com and other online dating services?.

Well you only saw each other a few times so at least little ventured. But you can if you like say, Hi, I thought we might have had some potential to see if something might develop so I just wondered to help me out in the future if you could tell me if there was something I did wrong that was a turn-off so I'll know not to do that with other guys..

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Omg lol noooo personally I would never ask.  All it will do is make you feel bad. .

If a guy stops calling me, I know it's because he wasn't interested.  What else is there to know?  No need to torture with details, imo.  Some people just don't click.  Even if I thought there was something there, the point is he didn't.  So there's a mismatch, which is totally useless of course lol  So again, no need to talk to him again, waste of my valuable time..

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He called today so maybe I can get this back on the right track. Thanks for your thoughts on this issue...

You're already looking at it wrong.  he's the one that needs to get it back on track with you..

Jeez, raise your confidence a touch.  make sure you dont act desperate. .

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I once read a dating (online dating with Match.com) book where she actually said have a friend call your ex dates and ask what wasn't "right"..

I know, soooo humiliating...and often sooo hard to hear BUT the answers improved the ladies dating (online dating with Match.com) game enormously by finding out how they come across, especially if the same thing was said over and over by different men..

So, even though it's rarely done and hard to do...I can see why one would want to ask. .

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Soliel..

"I once read a dating (online dating with Match.com) book where she actually said have a friend call your ex dates and ask what wasn't "right".".

This is absolutely ridiculous lolAnyone beyond 7th grade who entertains this idea is an idiot...

Well, this woman who proposes this is happily married. She also has helped thousands of women become happily married..

So, idiot?  Probably not since she has had such success..

Often those who quickly reject an idea need the idea the most..

Soliel..

Nope, dont need this asinine idea from your expert.  Been with the same guy for two years.  And if I want to know something or have a question for him or anyone else in my life I dont need my bestfriend asking them, I can ask them myself...