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My first question is: What does it mean on Match.com when it says "Active within 2 weeks" last time checked? or member s.

My next question is: My wife seems to be wanting a divorce as she has made that thereat,  many times in the last few weeks. We seem to have nothing in common any more. I pretty much let her do or go anywhere she wants, I have not been anywhere without her or our three boys in over eight years. Just last week a good friend of mine was in town for a short visit and she threw a fit when I asked to go and have a few beers with him. That I felt was totally on called for. Seems like thats not normal..

Also it seems like she doesn't want to do anything but maybe shop.     I do trust her and don't think she is having an affiar, I work every day and she works five days a week. What can I do?.

I hope someone has some ideas I'm nearing the end of my rope...

Comments (4)

Your question was: What does it mean on Match.com when it says "Active within 2 weeks" last time checked? or member s.

Sorry about your marriage problem.  You did not give a hint as to how you feel about it.  The only thing you said is you dont have anything in common and you dont do things together.  You can try and save your marriage by talking with your wife and maybe suggesting counceling, but dont be surpised if she does not want to do that..

In my opinion the handwriting is on the wall.  You dont want to live in a loveless marriage do you?  You have to make up your mind as to what you want and then go from there..

As far as trusting your wife is not having an affair you know her best, but if I were you I would be very suspicious..

Whatever you decide good luck and feel free to come back and post if you need to vent or seek advise/opinions again..

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Comment #1

Unless your wife is willing to talk about what is going on and agree to marriage counseling it will be next to impossible to save your marriage. You can't fix things by yourself. It takes both of you. I am not sure how long you have been married, but since you said you have 3 kids, I am assuming you have been together for awhile. I hope you are able to find some peace.Stephanie..

Comment #2

Thanks for your advice, I have been trying to get through to her but very little progress has been made.            We have been married almost 16 years..

 I am planning on asking her to go to Cancun for a week for our 16th, I let you know how that works out...

Comment #3

I do wish you the best of luck. I had been married 21 years when I made the decision to file for divorce. It was one of the hardest things I have ever done. I have always believed that marriage is for life. But, he wouldn't go to counseling and I couldn't fix it on my own or live like that any longer. Maybe without the kids around you can talk honestly about the situation.

I hope things go well and keep me posted.Stephanie..

Comment #4


This question was taken from a support group/message board and re-posted here so others can learn from it.

 

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