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My first question is: Why cant I get on match.com sign in anymore?.

My next question is: I met a guy through online dating, we emailed back and forth for a couple of weeks and then talked on the phone a few times, we have a lot in common, whenever he emailed me, he was funny and had a lot to say. We met a few weekends ago, we went to a game and had drinks after, nothing physical happened, the only time he touched me was when we were sitting together and he leaned over and touched my bare shoulder, when he dropped me off I told him he could call me in a couple of days. So we talked and continued to email. I did ask in one of my emails how he felt about our date, he said he had a lot of fun and wanted to go out again, wanted me to decide what we did next time. He did say he moves very slowly at dating (online dating with Match.com) because the past few relationships were over before they even started because they were not compatible. I said that was fine, because I feel the same, I also told him I liked he was not too aggressive because most men I have dated recently have been.

At the end of our date, he again did not attempt to kiss me, he did hug me and said he will pick what we do next time. But he has not emailed or called me. We have chatted on facebook and we sent each other little things on that. But I can see too that through the online dating (online dating with Match.com) site, that right when he got home from our date using Match.com he went on and was obviously checking for other women.I am not sure if I should take it for what it is and that he is really moving slow....how can I seem to make sure I do not scare him off? I really do like him from what I know of him. I am new to dating, recently out of a 10 year marriage so this is all very new to me..

Comments (7)

Your question was: Why cant I get on match.com sign in anymore?.

You have a right to know if he is dating (online dating with Match.com) other people. You could casually mention it the next time you see each other and see what he says...

Comment #1

If you sit back and let him pursue you then you won't scare him off and you will be able to tell if he is really interested in you or not. In my experience any man that was truly interested in me had no problems asking me for a date, no matter how shy. My feeling from what you've written is that this man is still keeping his options open (which is totally normal at this stage) and that you should do the same. Don't ask him anything about his feelings or his dating (online dating with Match.com) plans - it's too early in the game for that and besides, his actions will answer that question for you. .

Best wishes,.

Coolas..

Comment #2

I agree with Coolas...

Continue on with your life just like before he came into it, continue to date using Match.com other people, don't focus on this one guy, you barely know him, what he is doing is totally normal and he should keep his options open at this stage, as should you, if after two dates something like this bothers you then you are probably not ready to date using Match.com yet and need to slow way down...

Comment #3

Thanks sassisizz, I think you are probably right! This is bothering me too much and that should be an indication to myself that I am not ready for this...

Comment #4

If it has been awhile since you were in the dating (online dating with Match.com) scene, it's hard to get back into the swing of things, just take your time there is no rush, keep your life full, happy, make yourself the best you can be and things will fall into place...

With OLD I take everything they say with a huge grain of salt for a good while until things progress more and I get to know them and that is with in person dating (online dating with Match.com) time (email, phone, pc doesn't cut it), to see if their actions are backed up by their words. I've met some duds and some nice guys so just take your time.... Good luck..

Comment #5

I dont know why you would talk yourself out of dating. This guy may not be the best candidate for you because he is sending out ambiguous vibes but that doesnt mean you shouldnt try to find out what his deal is or date using Match.com someone else...

Comment #6

Yeah, I really do not want to stop dating. I enjoy it! I think I need to chill out a bit though and learn how to take things slowly. It is almost like because he has not tried anything I feel he is not interested. I have gone out with a couple of guys before him and they behaved the complete opposite, they were quite pushy. So, maybe I need to learn how to be flattered that he is not being pushy about things and I think you are right ragingangel, I need to just take it a bit easy. I will figure a way to try to figure him out a bit and if nothing happens, nothing happens, there are plenty of others out there. I think I just need some reassurance once and a while and other peoples input helps so much! Thank you!..

Comment #7

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